Human Design is a powerful way to uncover our patterns of conditioning – those learned ways of being. Deconditioning and Human Design is about bringing awareness to our patterns of behaviour and where they are keeping us stuck. Awareness is the first step of the deconditioning process. Getting curious about where you are doing things from a place of ‘shoulds’ and ‘people pleasing’ like feeling like you need to follow a linear path, or that you need to keep up with others. The art of contemplation brings with it wisdom and starts to reveal your true identity and nature.

When I first discovered I was a Projector I was shocked because I identified more with the traits of a Generator until I realised it was my conditioning. I’d been conditioned to work past my energetic capacity because I didn’t know when enough was enough. I’d be the first person to arrive at work each day and the last person to leave and I found it hard to switch off at the end of the day. Bringing awareness to this was huge for me and as a result I started to shift my identity from someone who measured my success by how much I achieved in a day, to someone who created a business where I’m paid for my insights and advice.

Here’s some of the common conditioning for each Human Design Type:

Common Conditioning for Manifestors

There’s often conditioning from a young age for Manifestors. They are told they are ‘too loud’ or ‘too much’ so they learn to dim their light, play it small and to not share their voice. When they discover that they are designed to initiate, innovate and share their opinions with others, it can be such an awakening moment to boldly step into their power with confidence.

Common Conditioning for Manifesting Generators

There’s often conditioning for MG’s around conforming to a linear path and holding back the depth of their multifaceted nature. But when they discover that they are designed to be multi-passionate it’s often the validation they need to let go of their fear of being seen as ‘all over the place’. Instead, there is a sense of freedom and new found confidence to follow a non-linear path in life and dive head first into their many creative urges.

Common Conditioning for Generators

A common conditioning is around what they think they “should” be doing which can result in them overextending themselves to please others. When they realise that being a Generator is about following their joy it can be a wake up call to finally follow their passion without feeling guilty. Many of the Generators that I initially work with are disconnected from the things that bring them joy so there’s this beautiful discovery of reconnecting with the things that light them up.

Common Conditioning for Projectors

There’s common conditioning around trying to keep up with Generators which might have led them to burnout in the past. When they find out they’re a Projector it’s like a permission slip to honour their energy. There’s this beautiful resonance that they no longer need to work past their energetic capacity in order to be successful. And instead they can master how to use their energy wisely through their gift of efficiency.

Common Conditioning for Reflectors

There’s often conditioning around feeling like they need to rush things or make quick decisions, which can lead to disappointment. Learning that their strategy involves waiting a lunar cycle before making big decisions, can give them the opportunity to really take the time and space they need in order to gain clarity. It’s like the ultimate permission slip to not feel pressured to rush things in their life.

Do you resonate with any of these patterns of conditioning connected to your Human Design Type?

If you are ready to start exploring your unique Human Design, my Decode MY Design reading is a great place to start. A 75-minute reading that focuses on highlighting your gifts & strengths and pinpointing any potential challenges that may be holding you back from stepping into your true potential.  

My readings are intuitive and have that 1/3 Pisces Projector depth that has my clients saying things like: “it’s as if you were looking into my mind and soul”. 

Nicole x